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Search For Commitments, Not Answers

I remember the feeling of being asked to answer a question that genuinely had many, equally correct answers. It was in uni, where we had to listen to a song on YouTube and “answer” with a song that, in our opinion, makes a good “response”. There were no expected answers; we all answered differently, and all were deemed equally correct. No, I haven’t studied music history, nor was this about a test with “participation trophies”. This was one of the most valuable lessons about how decisions work in the real world.

Usually, tests teach us that reaching a decision means finding the (one and only) correct answer.

Outside of school and crossword puzzles, day-to-day life contains very little of those. Mostly, making a decision means committing to an answer, and then not looking back for long enough to learn something about that choice.

And people

In my case, clients usually come with an expectation of a complex formula that I can give them, where you put your costs in and a price pops out as an answer. A well-calculated, immutable, easily defensible price – the correct answer.

That can work for simple, faceless, commoditized products (with a lot of caveats).

But for complex expertise-based services? The best we can do are well-rounded options that we can commit to continue using until we learn enough about them. Doesn’t produce an immutable answer, but does produce one that works well.

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